If it's not working, do something else. Whatever we were doing with Ingrid was not working, so we tried something else. Friday night we went to dinner and my mom watched her. She was fine while we were gone, but then up three times between 9 and 10:30pm. So, I took her mattress out of the crib, plopped it on the floor, grabbed my comforter and pillow, and we camped out. Ingrid thought this was very interesting. She laid on her mattress for awhile, with her hand touching my arm. Then she crawled over to me and snuggled for a bit. Then back to the mattress. Then she stood up and ran to the mattress, jumping on it and screeching "Wheee!" Hmm, not really the sleep I was hoping for, but not crying either.
After an hour and a half of me dozing next to Ingrid, who was crawling back and forth between me and her mattress, she finally started whining a little. I asked her if she wanted to go back to her bed, and she said yes. I put the mattress in the crib, stuck her in, and she slept for 7 1/2 hours. Last night she was up a couple times but not nearly as bad as it had been. Just getting that one night of 7 hours of sleep, and naps while my mom and Brendan watched her, I feel so refreshed! How ridiculous.