First of all, an update on our family time. I think we've been doing pretty well at it. Brendan has been taking little bike rides after the kids are in bed, so he gets some alone time. I have been sleeping when Otis does on Saturday mornings, so that helps me catch up on some sleep. And I also just had to show Brendan that family time does not have to happen only on the weekend and does not have to include a trip somewhere.
For example, I was sitting in our bed with both kids, we were reading bedtime books. Otis was smiling and giggling at Ingrid, she was kissing his hands to get another laugh, and I just thought, okay, here's family time. Where was Brendan? Out on the computer. So I called him in and told him if he wanted family time, he'd have to be around his family, not in the other room.
This weekend has been super fun. We went to the children's museum with friends, so Brendan took Ingrid around while I sat in the baby area and talked to a friend. It was family time but also hanging out time. I got some sewing done while Brendan played with the kids in the backyard. He's out right now by himself. I feel like this weekend we did a good job balancing. Who knows if it will last, but it works right now!
I think Otis getting older is helping. I know Brendan used to feel helpless when Otis was a newborn because he couldn't feed him. He couldn't figure out how to calm him down. But now Otis is a lot easier to figure out, he doesn't cry very often, and I've been trying to make sure I'm not the only one putting him down to bed. I did that with Ingrid and I'm totally regretting she never got used to anyone else putting her to bed!
Which brings us to Otis and feedings. He's been pretty good about nursing, he does most of the time. But sometimes, like today, his teeth are killing him and he just refuses. So he gets a bottle. It's not often, and I don't really mind. I wish I didn't have to, but I also don't want to deal with a screaming baby. We seem to have figured it out. He's eating solids three times a day now and that helps, too. Not every single feed has to be from me, Brendan can help with those.
Ingrid is enjoying her Montessori program. She cried when we left her last week, though, it broke my heart. The teachers said two seconds after I was gone she was fine, so I guess it's not that big of a deal. She comes home with lots of stories about her new little friends, and tons of paintings. What the hell do you do with all these paintings?? We hung some up in the kitchen, I'm going to save some for wrapping gifts for the grandparents, and I will recycle the rest I guess.
I have to get her signed up for the K3 Montessori still. I tried to go there last week but no one was there. Can't get a hold of anyone on the phone. The message says their hours are 7-4 but I think that's not during July. The school is in a shitty neighborhood and it made me sad that I was hesitant about sending her there. The teachers are awesome, why do I care if there's ghetto apartments across the street? Am I a snob? Either way, if we can get her into the neighborhood Montessori next year we will. I'd much rather walk her to school than drive her downtown...
Anyway, that's our news. Or non-news, really. It's not very exciting. It's lazy summer, we're pretty happy and everyone's healthy. We're enjoying being in Milwaukee, and we're excited about buying a house soon.
A New Path
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